By Apaar Baweja

Cobb alum Apaar Baweja (’13) and alumni speaker at Recognition 2026
Thank you, Head of School Sankaran, for the introduction. Thank you to the students, family, and faculty for allowing me to share this moment with you all. And lastly, thank you to my mother, Dr. Manpreet Baweja, and my girlfriend, Imandi Herath, who came here today to hear me speak.
To you all, I would ask that you bear with me. I believe that the last time I had to give a speech that was not technical was at my 6th grade recognition ceremony.
When I was asked to give this speech, I spent a long time trying to remember who the commencement speaker at my own graduation was or what they talked about – I could not. I realized that I also cannot recall who spoke at my high school graduation. I do, however, remember my college commencement speaker, but that is only because of how disconnected he was from reality.
During my college commencement, the speaker was protested by many of my fellow graduates. The reason for their displeasure was that the commencement speaker is a figurehead of a movement that is transforming our world into something unrecognizable and certainly more inequitable. My fellow graduates disliked his speech, not because he said something they disagreed with; they disliked it because he refused to acknowledge that the world we were about to enter was entirely different than the world he has been living in. Like my peers, I am sure many of the parents and faculty here are concerned about the world these graduates will eventually join as young adults. The world I discovered when I finished college was entirely different from the world that my parents experienced. And I believe the world that these graduates will eventually enter will be entirely different from the world we know now.
The good news is, I believe that because of their Montessori experience here at The Cobb School, these graduates have the foundation they need to succeed both at their next school and in the world in general. There are two Montessori principles about which I would like to speak. I believe that these foundations of the pedagogy helped me to succeed and will continue to help these graduates succeed.
The first is freedom of exploration. In Montessori, the student drives the learning. After a teacher introduces a student to a topic or a new material, the child is then left to explore the topic for themselves. The agency provided to the child to choose what they will work with fosters their natural curiosity. In higher education or in the workplace, it is rare to be presented with the exact tools or information that you need to succeed – those who do succeed are people who have the drive to identify what they need to learn and the resilience to seek out resources both internal and external. Moreover, the people who succeed are those who enjoy learning – the people who do not need to be told to learn something and the people who learn something without yet knowing its use.
The freedom of exploration also allows the student to explore topics deeply with no notion of how much time something deserves to be allotted. The opportunity to sit with a topic and return to it as many times as they would like is what allows a student to develop a deep understanding.
My favorite example of this, which I have thought about many times since leaving Cobb School, is the trinomial cube material. The student who works with the trinomial cube, without realizing it, has already developed a much deeper understanding of multi-dimensional expressions than the student who will eventually learn it from a chalkboard. The tactile experience of using the cubes and visualizing how they fit together has given these students an intuitive baseline upon which they can continue to build. As someone who studied mathematics and has constantly had people tell me they ‘never really got math’, I can assure everyone here that the graduates behind me today, by virtue of having worked with the trinomial cube, are far closer to a true understanding of higher-level concepts in math than the majority of students with whom I went to college and even the adults with whom I currently engage.
The second benefit of Montessori is that it treats the student like a whole person. Because teachers function as guides to the student’s education, rather than as lecturers, the student becomes an active participant in their own learning. Viewing their teachers as guides rather than authoritarian figures allows students to connect both with their teachers and themselves. Because students get to make the active choice to participate in their development, learning becomes who they are. Their memories of Cobb School will be of the things they chose to do, rather than of the things they were forced to do. As adults, they will still be able to relate to the people that they were at the Cobb school, because they were allowed to be themselves. Even in their next educational steps, the students here will have the privilege of knowing who they are and the confidence to express it and share their mind.
The biggest realization I have had since entering the workforce is that many adults, even those decades older than me, are self-deprecating and lack self-assurance. They went to schools where they were told what to learn and what to do – they were never able to consider what they wanted or who they truly wanted to become. They carry the burden of not knowing if they belong where they are or if they even want to be where they are.
My success, as well as the success of my colleagues, is not directly correlated with experience or intellect. Successful people are the ones who are sure enough in their sense of self to present their own vision for the future. They are the ones who are confident and passionate enough to engage with the world around them and to seek their own place. They are also the ones confident enough to stay quiet when they do not have anything to add. The graduates here today are prepared for success because they have already had the freedom to seek success on their own terms and have had the privilege of developing in an environment that was focused on who they were as people and what they wanted.
I know I have limited time here, so I would like to end my speech with a quick history lesson. Growing up, my grandfather, who himself attended Montessori, was told to excel at math so that he could get a ‘good job’. My parents, and many of you in the audience, were told to develop your advanced technical skills, like typing or making a spreadsheet. Growing up, I was told to learn how to code so that I could build the tools of the future. The graduates behind me are now going to be told to learn how to use AI tools. The only constant between these four generations is that the people who succeed will be the ones who are comfortable with adaptation, who are able to work independently, and above all, those with a strong enough sense of self to not buckle when faced with adversity. So, I would like to offer my congratulations to the graduates here today, and assure them and all of you parents in the audience that they will continue to succeed and, ultimately, they will be okay.










There is very little in the classroom that does not serve a purpose, and often many purposes at once.
Montessori classrooms are deliberately home-like. There are plants and art, rugs and baskets, a kitchen, real dishes, placemats, napkins, and objects chosen with care. The environment is not simply a room adults have prepared for children to occupy. It is a place that belongs to the children.
This relationship with the environment also teaches something important about responsibility.



